So here are 3 dating sites, built with forever relationships in mind, which focus on compatibility-based matching and substance over swiping:
1. Elite Singles
If you’re a career-oriented single who is looking for a fellow high achiever, then you’re likely to appreciate what EliteSingles has to offer. This is a high-end dating site for singles who don’t have time to waste and have very high standards.
EliteSingles narrows down its pool of singles with an extensive compatibility test that users take upon signing up. Be prepared to set aside about 30 minutes for the personality test, and to pay a bit more than you would for some other dating sites.
The extra investment is worth it—EliteSingles boasts an impressive pool of singles that consists of 82% university graduates, who are 30+, and whose stated goal on the site is to find a long-term committed relationship.
2. SilverSingles
SilverSingles is perfect for the 50+ online dater who is serious about nurturing a genuine relationship and wants to find someone equally ready to commit.
The site is designed to make the whole online dating process as easy as possible. They take the work from you - just fill out their personality quiz and let them find people who will be a good match for you.
And with a 50+ focus, you won't waste time wading through profiles of people who definitely won't fit your needs.
3. Zoosk
Zoosk is one of the world's most popular dating sites with some 35 million users, but it still puts the emphasis on quality over quantity.
Zoosk’s Behavioral Matchmaking system learns your preferences through your activity on the site and gives you increasingly more accurate results tailored to what you’re looking for.
It picks matches who have compatible likes, tastes and expectations, so that you can be sure to find only those who are seeking real relationships, like you. The idea is that getting sent one great match per day is better than having to sift through hundreds of profiles that may or may not be suitable.
Zoosk also boasts advanced security features which verify all profiles - so no surprises on date #1.